When is a ‘Travel Hack’ Unethical?

Where should consumers draw the line in an era where the tactics are profit-maximizing on both sides?

Source: When is a ‘travel hack’ unethical? – The Washington Post

There are ethical and not-so-ethical methods to secure the best travel deal.

There are ethical and not-so-ethical methods to secure the best travel deal.

Travel hacking is loosely defined as strategies for getting better travel deals. According to the article cited, travel hacking may be legal but not always ethical, especially when the practice involves deception. This post is a summary of the article.

Why do it? Price seems to be best when you choose the home base of the airline, and the U.S. dollar is always the most expensive option.

Ethical Strategies

1. Look online for hotel rates, then call a hotel to negotiate a better rate. No problem, no deception involved here.

2. Clearing your web browser’s cookies before going onto a travel site. The site won’t know you’ve been looking to book travel arrangements and will therefore be more likely to give you a good rate. Again, this is thought to be ethical because it doesn’t involve deception.

Probably Unethical

1. Using a different country other than your own on an airline’s website. Airline websites are multi-lingual and multi-currency. If you change your country (after first deleting cookies, no doubt) on an airline’s website, you might get a better deal. Unfortunately, if an airline figures out what you did, they might not honor the ticket.

2. Using a “hidden city” airline ticket to finish a flight at a stopover instead of the true destination. This can save you a lot of money, but it violates airlines’ fare rules. If you used a travel agent to book your trip, finishing a flight at a stopover could get the travel agent in trouble — the article doesn’t cite how — and it could lead to higher fares across the board: airlines will have figured out what travelers are doing and raise their rates to make sure there is no benefit to this practice.

3. Changing your IP address to a different country. Different countries have different local economies and standards of living. Should a traveler in one country pay the same rate for airfare as a U.S. citizen, who probably has a higher standard of living?

4. Using the title “Dr.” when you’re a Ph.D. because it might get you preferential treatment. This one is up for grabs. On one hand, people feel entitled to use a title they’ve earned; on the other, I’m not sure what “preferential” treatment someone might get because an airline crew thinks they are a medical doctor. As an experienced traveler, I’ve never seen a call for “all doctors can board now,” nor have I ever witnessed a flight attendant saying anything like, “Since you’re a doctor, we’d like you to have a better meal than everyone else.” (Yes, I’m being facetious. That’s the point.) In fact, the only time I’ve ever heard a flight crew use the term “doctor” on board is when a traveler has been sick and the crew has asked if there is a doctor on board the flight. One word of caution: If you’re a Ph.D. and you use the title “Dr.” liberally, don’t be surprised if you find yourself in a situation where a member of a flight crew asks, “But I thought you were a doctor?”

All travelers want to get the best deal. My one suggestion to ask yourself: If an airline found out how you got your deal, would they honor it?

Au revoir!

 

Image of plane landing by Modes Rodriguez, Flickr, CCBY 2.0.

Destination Wedding in Paris: Should You Hire a Wedding Planner?

Are you good with details? Do you have time to be on the phone with vendors in Paris during their work hours? If not, you might want to consider hiring a wedding planner.

Bridal couples strolling the streets in Paris usually look pretty calm. Did someone plan their wedding for them?

Bridal couples strolling the streets in Paris usually look pretty calm. Did someone plan their wedding for them?

Planning a wedding — any wedding — is hard work. You decide on a wedding date, a theme, a guest list, your wedding attendants and attire, ceremony and reception venues, flowers, music. It’s a lot to pull together. Now, consider the headache those details might give you and multiply it by 10: for those not detail-oriented, this is what you might face if you’re planning a destination wedding in Paris, given the distance and time and language differences. Perhaps you should consider hiring a wedding planner and let them have headaches for you. Here is information on three destination wedding planning services.

1. Destination Weddings.comAccording to their website, Destination Weddings.com has planned over 20,000 destination weddings and is an award-winning, Certified Destination Wedding Specialist. They’ve planned weddings in 100 regions and 42 countries. What I really like about them is that you can talk to a live human being during the planning process and they offer 24/7 emergency travel support. Your wedding dress didn’t arrive at your destination? Your flower vendor has shown up with the wrong flowers? They give you someone to contact to handle those details.

To get started, you create your profile by providing information like your name, how many guests you expect, your wedding date (even approximate), and the destinations you’re considering. They assign you a wedding planner suited to your needs.

The only thing I didn’t like when I did research for this post was that when I called and asked them how they can provide their services 100% free…the customer service person didn’t want to answer my question! One would think this would be straightforward: are their services free or aren’t they? Turns out you pay $50 to get started and the fee is recouped by being applied to services paid for; Destination Weddings.com is paid a commission from those services. You don’t have to use their Preferred Partners (hotels and the like) to take advantage of their service, but they do have a Preferred Partner Perks program in which you can get value-added amenities.

Destination Weddings.com
Phone: 1-888-536-1923, Monday – Thursday, 9:00 A.M. – 8:00 P.M., EST
Friday, 9:00 A.M. – 7:00 P.M., EST
(This is if you want to speak someone up front.)

2. Perfect Paris Wedding.comThe company is owned by a Parisian named Claire Bay. She is not only a wedding planner but also a celebrant (someone who conducts weddings). She also works with two other celebrants.

Perfect Paris Wedding offers three packages: 1) Eiffel Tower Wedding (outdoors); 2) Notre Dame Wedding (outdoors); and 3) Paris Chateau Wedding (indoors). (Note: Paris Chateau is a specific place and was once owned by Louis XV.) In addition to ceremony photos, the outdoor packages include a 2-hour chauffeur-driven photo-tour around Paris with a professional photographer; you have your photo taken at sites such as Place de la Concorde and Trocadero (near the Eiffel Tower).

The Paris Chateau Wedding package includes ceremony photos, a shoot in the chateau and grounds, plus a photo session around the Louvre.

The standard price for the outdoor packages is 2,600 euros (with a conversion rate of $1.08 to 1 euro, that’s $2,808.00); for the indoor Paris Chateau package it’s 3,950 euros ($4,266.00). Included in the standard package:

*Symbolic Ceremony
* Commemorative Wedding Certificate
* Luxury Wedding Vehicle & Chauffeur
* Professional Photographer
*Bride’s bouquet, hair & make-up

You can also add extras.

The site is easy to navigate. You complete a form to get a quote, which is not binding. As a test, I selected the Paris Chateau package, with a wedding date of Saturday, June 11, 2016 (dates are input in European style, DD/MM/YY), 20 guests, a tailor-made ceremony (extra for 150 euros), a half-bottle of champagne for a wedding toast (extra 50 euros), a Day-of bilingual coordinator (extra 350 euros), with a departure date 1 week from wedding date. My quote: 4,500 euros ($4,860.00).

Perfect Paris Wedding.com
Office Hours: Monday – Friday, 10:00 A.M. – 3:00 P.M., Central European Time
A phone number is not offered on the site for questions.

3. Wedding Light Events.com. Wedding Light Events.com offers luxury wedding planning and other services; for an elopement of just a wedding couple, they suggest a budget of 5,000 euros ($5,400.00 with current conversion rate), and for 50 guests they suggest 25,000 euros ($27,000). They believe in making your event unique rather than offer every couple the same package.

According to their site, an elopement package of (presumably) 5,000 euros includes:

*Officiant
*Ceremony location
*Professional Photographer – Olivier Lalin, whose work has appeared in The New York Times
*Restaurant reservations
*Planning fees

Oddly, after “restaurant reservations” there is an “etc.” If ever there is a time to be exact, this is it.

Their venue selections are as follows:

*Paris Outdoors – at Paris landmarks such as the Eiffel Tower, Pont de Alexandre III, the Louvre
*Luxury Hotels – such as Shangri-La, Hotel de Vendome, and Hotel de Crillon
*Chappelle Expiatoire – a beautiful chapel commissioned by Louis XVIII
*Riding Along the Seine – in a boat on the Seine River

The company recommends at least 12 months to plan a wedding, 18 months if you want a popular ceremony or reception venue. For smaller events, such as a couple-only elopement, they can probably take you last minute.

To get started, you complete an easy form requesting your name and contact information, general time period for event, number of guests, and specific needs; you can request a time for a conversation via telephone or Skype. (The site does not offer a phone number to call.) You can also contact them by email: info@weddinglightevents.com.

Hope this helps. My Destination Wedding in Paris series will continue next Friday with a post about developing your wedding timeline.

 

Au revoir!

 

 

Image of Bridal Couple with Moms by Dustin Diaz, Flickr, CCBY 2.0.

 

Boutique Hostel Hunting in Paris? Plug-Inn Hostel is the Ritz of Hostels

Conveniently located between Blanche and Abbesse metro stations in the 18th arrondissement, Plug-Inn Hostel is the Ritz of hostels.

Plug-Inn's reception area is a mix of form-meets-function and edgy coolness.

Plug-Inn’s reception area is a mix of form-meets-function and edgy coolness.

I chose to stay at Plug-Inn Hostel during my last trip to Paris for a variety of reasons: the price was right, it offered free Wi-Fi and computer use in their lobby, a free breakfast, and it was very close to two metro stations. I also admit I was taken by the beautiful photographs on their website. I will return because it was incredibly clean and the staff was super-friendly.

They have a huge, purple banner outside their door, so you can’t miss it. With a 24-hour check-in, arriving there at 11:30 P.M. was not a problem. After paying for my stay I was in bed within minutes.

A typical dorm room in Plug-Inn Hostel.

A typical dorm room in Plug-Inn Hostel.

I stayed in several rooms, mostly in all-female dorms, all of which had their own bathroom. Rooms are nicely, if sparsely, furnished, as space is tight, but remember, you’re IN PARIS and not paying very much, all things considered. Their interior designer knew how to make the most of a small space using color and amenities, such as a spiral staircase. (Note: Their lift, or elevator, is one of the smallest I’ve ever seen. But then I live in the United States where elevators are often twice as big as a walk-in closet.) Plug-Inn offers so much: besides the things I’ve already mentioned, included in your room fee are towels and bedding, self-locking lockers for your personal valuables, and showers for early arrivals (if you arrive before the room is ready). They also have large screen TVs in their private rooms, and a large screen TV in a common area, which is always locked or under the watchful eye of the front desk person. Guests often leave their luggage here instead of taking up space in their dorm room.

Moulin Rouge is a short walk from Plug-Inn Hostel and even closer to Blanche metro and a bus stop.

Moulin Rouge is a short walk from Plug-Inn Hostel and even closer to Blanche metro and a bus stop.

You’re right in the middle of Montmartre here, the 18th arrondissement, which has a bohemian or village feel to it; you’re close to Moulin Rouge and Sacre-Coeur (in different directions). You’re also close to Montmartre’s hill, with bakeries, vegetable and seafood stands, clothes and trinket shops, and even a small grocery store and dry cleaner nearby. A short walk from the hostel, I discovered Le Basilic, a French restaurant on rue Lepic that was so good I ate there five or six times. I also ate or grabbed take-away numerous times at a near-by Asian restaurant on rue Lepic near the bottom of Montmartre’s hill.

Not all cab drivers know of Plug-Inn Hostel, however. I showed my cab driver the written address and he said he “thought” he knew where it was. It was a 50 euro cab ride to the hostel from Charles de Gaulle Airport. Sure, I could have taken the metro, but I was very tired and had landed late at night. Better to be safe and take a cab.

Plug-Inn’s value and customer service are hard to beat. I highly recommend it.

Plug-Inn Boutique Hostel
7 rue Aristide Bruant
75018 Paris France
+ 33 (0)1 42 58 42 58
http://plug-inn.fr/

Click here for how to get to Plug-Inn Hostel.

 

Au revoir!

 

Images of Plug-Inn Hostel from their website. Image of Moulin Rouge by Elsa L. Fridl.

 

Traveling in 2016? Make a Resolution Not To Make This List

Expedia released their first ever Hotel Etiquette Study, which details the Top 10 Most Annoying Guests. Can you guess who is Most Annoying? (Hint: “Little Jimmy can scream in the halls all he wants. We pay good money to stay here!”)

Source: Annoying hotel guests make Expedia’s list. We know who you are. – The Washington Post

Hotel hallways are NOT the place to allow your kids to train for the 100-yard dash.

Hotel hallways are NOT the place to allow your kids to train for the 100-yard dash.

Ahhhh, traveling. So exciting to see how people from other countries live. Take in the sites, sip Cappuccino, have new experiences. Unfortunately, those new experiences often include contact with other, less-than-well-mannered guests at your hotel. Expedia recently conducted a survey to find out which behaviors bothered hotel guests the most. Hopefully, the survey will give at least some travelers something to think about the next time they pack their bags (that is, those who need to read it). Here are the Top 10 Most Annoying Guests, counting down:

10. Elevator Chatterbox. Have you heard the term “elevator speech”? It’s a thirty-second (the typical time one spends in an elevator) summary about yourself and what you can do for an organization. Candidates put a lot of thought into their elevator speeches when they’re looking for a job; it might just get them a foot in the door. When you’re on vacation (or, in European terms, “on holiday”), riding an elevator with persons unknown, it is not the time to practice that elevator speech; rather, it’s the time to practice restraint. No one wants to hear the details of your life. And if someone doesn’t speak your language, it’s just noise.

9. Business Bar Boozer. All dressed up with nowhere to go, the Business Bar Boozer hangs around the bar whenever he or she isn’t busy with that Important Meeting or Conference taking place in the hotel. Why not: 1) read a book, or, 2) just drink something non-alcoholic? Business attire does not make drunkenness more attractive.

8. Hot Tub Canoodlers. I’ve never understood this one. A couple is on vacation at a hotel, and they choose to show way more Public Displays of Affection in a hot tub than they’d want their own children to see — why not just go to your room? You’ve paid for it!

7. The Loudly Amorous. Well. Perhaps the Hot Tub Canoodlers decided to go their room after all. Keep it down, please. The walls aren’t that thick!

6. Poolside Partyers. This is probably the most dangerous category, since drinking alcohol around a pool can cause a person to slip and hit their head with catastrophic consequences. In addition, Poolside Partyers are often just plain loud: playing in the water, calling out, laughing. Sounds of life, right? Other people have lives, too. Keep the noise down.

5. Bickerers. This is probably the saddest category: people on vacation spend it by arguing the entire time? It’s not just a downer for the people involved, but for everyone around them. Perhaps next time the money for vacation would be better spent on a couples’ therapist.

4. In-Room Revelers. As already mentioned in #7, hotel room walls might not be as thick as you imagine, so having an after-party in your room at 1:00 A.M. may not be the best idea. Sure, you’ve paid for your room, but here’s the kicker: So has everyone else. And they paid for peaceful sleep.

There are other ways of defining oneself besides complaining.

There are other ways of defining oneself besides complaining.

3. Complainers. This isn’t about letting the front desk know you found bed bugs in your room. A Complainer is like a leaky faucet: No matter how much you tend to it, it never stops. Complainers are never satisfied. Please. So you only got three towels instead of your usual four — do you really need it?

2. Hallway Hellraisers. Hotels are known for having long, wide hallways. Unfortunately, many people see these hallways as their personal space for letting others know how happy they are to be on vacation — or, better yet, as the place to allow their kids to train for the 100 yard dash. Guess what? Fellow guests are behind many of the doors you walk by (or in the kids’ case, run by). Be an angel and keep quiet as you walk back and forth to the elevator.

And the winner is………..

1. Inattentive Parents. Sixty-seven percent of more than 1,000 participants said parents have allowed their children to run down halls, destroy plants, kick furniture, and slam doors in hotels. What these parents don’t understand is that their children are likely to grow up to be guests #2 – #10. Good manners start with you, parents. As the song says:

You who are on the road
Must have a code that you can live by…
Teach your children well…
And know they love you.

 

Au revoir!

 

Image of Hotel Hallway by Sebastian Lange, Flickr, CCBY 2.0. Image of Complainer by Dushan Wegner, Flickr, CCBY 2.0.

Lyrics of “Teach Your Children,” by Graham Nash, recorded by Crosby, Stills, Nash, and Young, 1970. Copyright Sony/ATV Music Publishing, LLC.

 

 

 

 

Destination Wedding in Paris: Time to Ooohhhh and Ahhhhh

Recover from staying up late by ooohhhing and ahhhing over the beautiful photographs of wedding attire. You’ll see a written post on planning a destination wedding in Paris next Friday.

Happy New Year! I’m sure you’re looking forward to the start of 2016 (aren’t we all?), but you may not be in the mood to read much today, especially early. In celebration of New Year’s, here are three links to sparkly wedding attire…because we all love sparkles at a wedding — am I right?

Click here to see sparkly shoes

These sparkly wedding shoes will complement almost any dress.

These sparkly wedding shoes will complement almost any dress.

 

 

 

An elegant wedding dress by Ziad Nakad.

An elegant wedding dress by Ziad Nakad.

Ziad Nakad wedding dresses

 

 

 

 

"Ivania" by Atelier Pronovias. What an elegant look for a bride.

“Ivania” by Atelier Pronovias. What an elegant look for a bride.

Atelier Pronovias Haute Couture wedding dresses

 

 

Bisou Bisou!

 

 

Image of wedding shoes found on Fabmood.com, CCBY 2.0. Image of wedding dress by Ziad Nakad found on weddinginspirasi.com, CCBY 2.0. Image of “Ivania” wedding dress by Atelier Pronovias found on weddinginspirasi.com, CCBY 2.0.

7 Reasons to Visit Paris in January

Fewer tourists, cozy cafés, twinkling lights… all to yourself.

Source: 7 Reasons to Visit Paris in January – French Morning

1. January Sales (Les Soldes)

January Sales + Fashion Week = Unique Paris Experience in January

January Sales + Fashion Week = Unique Paris Experience in January.

Sure, you don’t have to leave the U.S. to take part in sales. But it’s Paris! On January 6, 2016, Paris shops and boutiques begin their January sales. While I’m not into shopping so much that I’d travel to Paris just to shop, I love my cape that I bought in Paris. Click here for French Morning’s suggestions on where to purchase that undefinable je ne sais quoi (I do not know what) French item that will have your friends oohhing and ahhhing.

2. Paris Fashion Week
You can’t purchase tickets to Fashion Week, but there will be plenty of fashion designers and models of both sexes walking the streets to make Paris in winter a little more interesting. Fashion Week will take place at the Carrousel du Louvre, an underground shopping mall in the 1st arrondissement (Metro: Tuileries). Men’s fashion will be shown from Wednesday, January 20 – Sunday, January 24; Haute Couture from Sunday, January 24 – Thursday, January 28. Watch the fashion shows live by clicking here.

3. Warmer Temperatures during Winter Than You Might Expect
When I was in Paris during winter recently, temperatures hovered in the mid-40s Fahrenheit (about 7.2 degrees Celsius) and it tended to rain/sprinkle more than snow. Since many cafes have heated outdoor seating, you’ll see plenty of Parisians sitting outside drinking Espresso without a care of feeling cold. Besides, sitting outside during winter gives you a good excuse to snuggle up to someone you love.

4. Fewer Tourists
Are you an art lover who yearns to spend quality time in Paris museums but don’t like crowds? January would be a great time for you to go. There won’t be long lines to get in or people elbowing you for a better look. (That goes for attractions and shows of all types, too.) Click here for Paris Insiders Guide to museum exhibits in January.

5. Great Skiing 4 Hours Away
So, perhaps you want to go to Paris to beat the crowds, but your honey doesn’t want to miss snow skiing. No need! Click here for Ski & Snowboard’s recommendations for French skiing.

Mmmmmmm…..La Gallette des Rois!

6. La Galette des Rois (The Cake of Kings) is Plentiful in Boulangeries (Bakeries)
You need only to look at the picture (or should I say, “salivate over the picture”?) to know why it is so named: flaky, rich, and slightly sweet, meant to be consumed with Espresso or another hot drink to keep you toasty warm.

 

Pont de Alexandre III lit up at night.

Pont de Alexandre III lit up at night.

7. It Gets Dark at 3:30 P.M.
More time to enjoy the City of Light lit up in all of its splendor. How I love those old fashioned gas lights and the Eiffel Tower lit up at night.

 

 

 

Bon Voyage!

 

Image of Paris Fashion Week poster by Paris Insiders Guide, CCBY 2.0. Image of French Alps by David-Michael Photography, Flickr, CCBY 2.0. Image of La Gallette des Rois by Gael Chardon, Flickr, CCBY 2.0. Image of Pont de Alexandre III by CanStockPhoto.

 

Thinking of a Destination Wedding in Paris? 9 Points to Consider

This is the first of a series of posts on planning a destination wedding in Paris. Look for them on Fridays.

To be married in Paris is the quintessential romantic dream for many people. With a lot of planning, your dream can come true.

To be married in Paris is the quintessential romantic dream for many people. With careful planning, your dream can come true.

Thinking of planning a wedding in Paris, but not sure what’s involved? Here are a few points to consider to help you determine if planning a destination wedding in Paris is right for you.

1. You can’t get legally married in France unless you establish residency and are able to provide documents to prove it. To do this, either you or your intended spouse, or one of your parents (since 2013) must have a connection to the French town you wish to marry in, or you establish residency by living there more than 40 days consecutively near the location of your wedding. You will need to be able to provide to the town’s city hall two pieces of ID to prove this, such as: a lease, utility bill or French social security card, as well as information on witnesses. You would marry at city hall for legal purposes and then follow-up with another ceremony at the location of your choice — though you most likely can’t rent a national landmark, since they are public spaces.

Even to be married in a Catholic Church in France – which is not legally binding – you need: a letter from your own church’s parish priest and Bishop, Baptism and Confirmation certificates, and a marriage certificate from your civil ceremony. France is a Catholic country, and it’s possible that not all Catholic churches in Paris (and France, in general) will allow anyone other than their church members to marry in their respective churches.

Most couples opt for a civil ceremony in the U.S. (or whatever your native country is) before their wedding in Paris.

2. Consider hiring a wedding planner. It is hard enough for most couples to coordinate the details of a wedding that takes place in their home town, much less across the Atlantic in a locale with a time and language difference. While the language barrier is lessening since more and more French people are learning English, it’s the nuances of French and English that might prove troublesome. For instance, you might be somewhat allergic to heavily scented flowers, so you ask a florist if your choice has an “odor.” Unfortunately, odeur in French means “fragrant,” so it might seem that all flowers are off your list. You need not hire a wedding planner who speaks French, just one who will triple-check details and asks questions in a variety of ways to make sure you pay for exactly what you want.

Having said that…………….

3. Be prepared for a minor detail to not be exactly what you want. I’m not saying to count on it, just that there’s a higher risk of it happening given the distance. You’ll need to be flexible. Your guests won’t know that you wanted blue and white Hydrangeas in the hotel bathrooms and instead you got Calla Lilies like the rest of your flowers.

4. Plan to overnight EVERYTHING you and your wedding party need for your big day. Don’t try to save money by checking the bridal dresses, tuxes, shoes, hair decorations, pantyhose, or the like in your luggage: if it is lost, you’ll be scrambling to replace them in Paris. You’ll want to put EVERYTHING on your bed that you and your wedding party needs, and then make a list to be sure you remember it all. Then run it by your wedding planner after you make your list to see if you’ve overlooked anything. And don’t forget several clothing steamers! Here’s one I recommend: Corporate Travel Safety’s Dual Voltage Travel Pro Steamer.

5. Check with your hotel about what they recommend for receiving your wedding party paraphernalia (#4). I would send your package(s) to arrive in Paris before you leave the U.S. so you can track the progress of your package(s). This might mean you will have to pay for a room for the hotel to put them in. Your peace of mind knowing your packages are safe will be worth the expense.

6. Give yourself at least 2 days in Paris to recover from jet lag before the ceremony. Even if you think you won’t need it – you and your spouse-to-be might be experienced travelers – your guests probably will. Think of the oldest person (or whoever will suffer the most from traveling) you’re inviting to your wedding and ask yourself: How many days will this person need to fully recover from jet lag? Then give yourself that much time.

7. Think twice before planning a wedding in Paris during the month of August: many businesses shut down for a month-long vacation. When I was in Paris during August about 20 years ago, I was astonished at how empty it was. French people take their vacation time (vacances) seriously.

8. Plan for a 15-20% emergency cushion in your spending plan (otherwise known as a budget). It always makes sense to have an emergency cushion; in this case, there might be legal fees or taxes that will take a bite out of your spending plan. Then, if you don’t need the emergency cushion, you can either save it or spend it on your honeymoon in Paris.

9. Give yourself 6 months to plan a small wedding, at least a year for a larger one. Consider who you want to be in your wedding, then find out if they have any prior commitments within the next 6-12 months. You won’t want to have secured your wedding and reception venues, only to find out your Maid of Honor or Best Man has a prior commitment.

 

Bisou Bisou!

 

Image of wedding couple, Aileen and Rafik, by Agence Tophos, Flickr, CCBY 2.0.