August 31: A Solemn Anniversary in Paris

Princess Diana, the People's Princess, lives in our hearts forever.

Princess Diana, the People’s Princess, lives in our hearts forever.

August 31, 2015 – Today marks the 18th anniversary of Princess Diana’s death. She, along with her boyfriend, Dodi Fayed, died as a result of injuries sustained after their driver, Henri Paul, slammed into the 13th pillar in the Pont de l’Alma road tunnel in Paris. Henri Paul also died. Trevor Rees-Jones, Diana’s and Dodi’s bodyguard, suffered permanent injury.

I previously wrote a tribute to Diana for The Washington Post Magazine, and I do not believe I can improve upon it. Since it is jumbled together with other letters to the editor if you view it here, the letter, printed on December 21, 1997, is reprinted below in its entirety.

I AM 36, THE SAME AGE DIANA WAS when she died. Although I was born six months earlier than she, it was I who looked up to her. She helped me find myself; I would not be the woman I am today without her influence. Contrary to what Richard Cohen would have you believe, a person need not negotiate a peace treaty or be elected prime minister to make a positive impact on the world. Princess Diana radiated love to the world around her. She touched the lives of two generations of women, and we will remember her grace, her style and her loving heart for the rest of our lives.

ELSA L. FRIDL

There will never be anyone like her. May she rest in peace.

Princess Diana's final resting place, an island on the Althorp Estate, which belongs to her brother, the Earl Spencer.

Princess Diana’s final resting place, an island on the Althorp Estate, which belongs to her brother, the Earl Spencer.

 

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Image of Princess Diana by Trish, courtesy of Flickr, CCBY 2.0. Image of Princess Diana’s island on Althorp by Jon Merler, courtesy of Flickr, CCBY 2.0.

August 28-30, 2015 — Rock-En-Seine Festival

A scene from Rock-en-Seine 2010 by Sylvain Sechet.

A scene from Rock-en-Seine 2010 by Sylvain Sechet.

The Rock-en-Seine Festival is a 3-day rock music festival and starts today. It is held at Domaine National de Saint-Cloud, the Chateau de Saint-Cloud’s Park, west of Paris, inside the garden designed by Andre Le Notre. This year marks the 13th year for the festival.

Think of it as Woodstock with a French accent. Three days of music. Camping for 3-day package ticket holders (which, according to my information, are sold out). In 2014, the festival had 5 stages with 65 bands split among them; 110,000 spectators attended in 2013.

The closest subway station is Boulogne-Pont de Saint-Cloud, 5 minutes away from the venue. To get information about the festival, follow it on Twitter @rockenseine.

 

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Image of Rock-en-Seine Festival 2010 (“Foret humaine” “Human drill”) by Sylvain Sechet, courtesy of Flickr, CCBY 2.0. Source material from “Rock en Seine,” Wikipedia, CCBY 2.0.

August 25: Liberation Day in France

General Charles de Gaulle and his entourage proudly stroll down the Champs-Elysees to Notre Dame Cathedral for a Te Deum ceremony following the city's liberation on August 25, 1944. (Photograph and caption from Wikimedia.)

General Charles de Gaulle and his entourage proudly stroll down the Champs-Elysees to Notre Dame Cathedral for a Te Deum ceremony following the city’s liberation on August 25, 1944. (Photograph and caption from Wikimedia.)

August 25, 2015 – Today marks the 71st anniversary of Paris being liberated from the German army during WWII. While it not a national holiday, it is still a day of remembrance.

In my experience, even though the Japanese attacked Pearl Harbor and therefore necessitated the U.S. going to war, many Americans view WWII as a war we fought to help other nations. Imagine if soldiers occupied your local hotels, ate and drank without paying at your local restaurants, and entered homes on your block at will. This is what Parisians faced – and probably only a fraction of the horror – until Paris was liberated. General Charles de Gaulle was integral in the fight to retake Paris. After the Vichy government (pro-Nazi) had fallen, de Gaulle, as the leader of the French Resistance, served as provisional head of government. He was subsequently voted in as French President. He is widely regarded in France as a hero of the highest caliber.

So, as you sit at Paris cafes, drink cappuccino, and enjoy the charms that Paris has to offer, take notice of the war monuments around you. Perhaps this is an insight into why French people believe in enjoying life to the fullest and in the moment: they don’t take their freedom for granted.

 

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You Can Be Robbed While Travelling and Still Have Your Purse or Wallet

RFID Blocking Passport Case by Travelon protects your identity and is a must have for all travelers. Best selection of RFID Blocking travel solutions.

Source: RFID Blocking Passport Case

Thieves don't need your actual credit card to rob you; they can use a scanner and get your information from the RFID chip embedded in it from as far as 10 feet away.

Thieves don’t need your actual credit card to rob you; they can use a scanner and get your information from the RFID chip embedded in it from as far as 10 feet away.

This explanation of RFID technology by CorporateTravelSafety is very clear and should be read by all travelers. Radio Frequency Identification (RFID) chips are being used in passports and credit cards, and though convenient, can be read up to 10 feet away (reported by CNN, according to CorporateTravelSafety.com). This means that if someone has an RFID scanner, they might be able to steal your identity from your passport and your credit card information while they are tucked away in your purse or pocket.

One word of caution: Don’t necessarily think that an exotic, expensive wallet skin will protect your identity and financial information as well as an RFID Blocking Passport Case. I used to work retail, and many customers returned exotic skin wallets (such as alligator and crocodile) because they demagnetized their credit cards; it therefore makes sense those same wallets could interfere with RFID chips, though I don’t know that for sure.

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Tips on How to Travel Light

Pack it all in — without overstuffing or suffering.

Source: Tips on how to travel light without sacrificing comfort and style – The Washington Post

To avoid this, do a dry run and pack EVERYTHING you want to take on your trip. It's usually the last 10-15%  that leaves you wanting for more space.

To avoid this, do a dry run and pack EVERYTHING you want to take on your trip. It’s usually the last 10-15% that leaves you wanting for more space.

I have already published a post on packing for women and am working on one for men. Here is an article on packing I’ll pass along. You’ll notice that Ziploc Space bags are mentioned here: I swear by the them. But there is also a lot of other good information here, like packing your heaviest items close to the wheels of your suitcase. Good reading!

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10 Ways To Bring Paris Home

An antique French bed.

Most people would like to bring back a bit of Paris with them.

Travelers go to Paris for many reasons, and most would like to “bring Paris home” with them. Here are 10 ways to do just that and which don’t take up much room in your baggage.

1. Buy a new scent before your trip or while in Paris. Your sense of smell is said to be the most powerful memory-inducer of all of your senses. By purchasing a new fragrance and using it in Paris, every time you smell it you will remember cherished memories of your trip.

Chanel No. 5.

Chanel No. 5, one of the most classic French fragrances.

Before I went to Paris in 1994, I purchased scented sheets by 4711 – similar to Wet Ones, but with fragrance – to help me feel fresh. Now, every time I smell 4711, I remember being at the Eiffel Tower when a young Frenchman struck up a conversation with me, during which he asked me if I have a “bebe.” (I laughed because I didn’t understand him at first. Non!) Naturally, I would recommend a fragrance from a French design house, such as Christian Dior, Chanel, Cacharel or Guerlain.

Take this idea one step further by visiting Perfumerie Fragonard near the Opera Metro (9th arrondissement): You’ll discover how perfume is made and can make a purchase while there.

Flower market beside La Madeleine.

Flower markets like this one beside La Madeleine are found all over Paris.

2. Buy a flower or a bunch upon your arrival in Paris to keep in your hotel room. Flower merchants are everywhere in Paris. Purchase flowers to keep in a humble cup or glass in your hotel room. Upon departure, slip them in a plastic bag before packing them. Once home, every time you see those particular flowers you’ll think of Paris, and you can keep the dried flowers from your trip in a special place. (NOTE: Check with your country’s Customs Regulations to see if there are restrictions on bringing home cut flowers. If you are a U.S. citizen coming back to the States and your cut flowers have berries attached, you will need a permit, PPQ Form 587, Application for Permit to Import Plants or Plant Products, in order to clear U.S. Customs. Click here for more information.)

I tried Pinot Noir in Paris and loved it.

I tried Pinot Noir in Paris and loved it.

3. Try a new wine or drink – alcoholic or non- — while in Paris. I don’t drink much alcohol, though I do like wine. I tried Pinot Noir during my last trip to Paris and found I loved it. It is now my go-to wine.

Food doesn't have to be elaborately made to be memorable.

Food doesn’t have to be elaborately made to be memorable.

4. Remember something you ate in Paris that will spark a particularly fond memory of your trip and make it at home. Food doesn’t have to be elaborately made to spark fond memories. While I was in Paris for my latest trip, I made baguette sandwiches with greens, a few vegetables and Maille dressing (the hostel provided the baguette; I bought everything else and kept it in the refrigerator). Whether this concoction is actually French is of no consequence: the sandwich still sparks fond memories of me exploring Paris.

Do something out of your comfort zone to make your trip memorable...anyone for singing in the rain?

Do something out of your comfort zone to make your trip memorable….anyone for singing in the rain?

5. Do something out of your comfort zone. After I saw “Cats” in Washington, D.C., I was so over-joyed by the music I climbed onto a bench and belted out a few bars of “Memory.” Sure, I was no Susan Boyle, and my date thought I was a little crazy, but we both laughed about it in fun. While I think of Paris as the capital of sophistication as well as France, that doesn’t mean you can’t do something out of your comfort zone. You will always laugh about it later.

Souvenir shop in Montmartre.

Which souvenirs do you purchase with so many to choose from?

6. Purchase something small in Paris that you will use or look at every day. My top three are a keychain, a refrigerator magnet, and a mug, because I see or use all three every day. Also, I am a collector of mugs, and haven’t broken a mug on the trip home yet. Sometimes looking at the array of souvenirs on tables can be daunting to the eye; that’s why it helps to know what you are looking for.

7. See a French music performer or remember music you heard

Nadiya, a French singer, performs in concert at La Cigale.

Nadiya, a French singer, performs in concert at La Cigale.

on your trip. Many restaurants in Paris play background music; if a song strikes your fancy, ask a waiter who performs it, and buy their CD in Paris or at home. There are also many live music venues, such as Olympia Bruno Coquatrix (in the 9th arrondissement). See www.parisvoice.com/music for more venues.  Le Basilic in Montmartre played a combination of French music and Barbra Streisand, though I was already in culinary heaven from their food – the music was just an added bonus.

Pathe is a French film production and distribution company that owns many cinema chains in Europe though mainly in France.

Pathe is a French film production and distribution company that owns many cinema chains in Europe though mainly in France.

8. See a movie while in Paris. Parisian theatres often offer films in French and in English: take your pick. (Just ask at the ticket counter.) I saw The Hunger Games: Mockingjay Part I (in English), during my last trip to Paris. I didn’t love the movie, but now when I think of it, I am reminded of finding my way in the theatre, which had a different feel from the theatres at home.

Riverside Market, Paris.

Riverside Market, Paris. Markets like this one are all over Paris.

9. Purchase a painting or poster and send it home (if need be). While on my first two trips to Paris, I bought lithographs of Paris landmarks and other frame-able artwork, all of which I could fit in my suitcases without much trouble. Artwork is generally something you keep forever, unless circumstances otherwise intervene. Every time you look at it, you will be reminded of your trip.

10. Take a photo of your family in front of an iconic landmark. This might seem an obvious choice, so consider the reason I mention it: Every time you think of or mention that landmark, you will remember the fond memories you made on your trip.Family at Eiffel Tower_Flickr_7460258340_843711f17f_z

 

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Image of Pink French Bed, “1 Top Ten Bedroom Ideas” by John Dake, courtesy of Flickr, CCBY 2.0. “Chanel N5” by Wesley Vieria Fonseca, courtesy of Flickr, CCBY 2.0. “Flower Market Beside La Madeleine,” by Tom Flemming, courtesy of Flickr, CCBY 2.0. “Wine I,” by Kevin Galens, courtesy of Flickr, CCBY 2.0. “Baguette,” by Pearl Pirie, courtesy of Flickr, CCBY 2.0. “Singing in the Rain,” by Skip, courtesy of Flickr, CCBY 2.0. “Nadiya – La Cigale – 2009,” by Oouinouin, courtesy of Flickr, CCBY 2.0. Image of Pathe logo, “Samen naar Pathe,” by Roel Wijnants, courtesy of Flickr, CCBY 2.0. “Riverside Market, Paris” by Faungg’s Photos, courtesy of Flickr, CCBY 2.0. Image of family at Eiffel Tower, “Mr. Durgesh Pandit and Family at Eiffel,” by ClubMTravel Admin, courtesy of Flickr, CCBY 2.0. Pathe information cited from Wikipedia, “Pathe,” CCBY 2.0.