A “To Do” List To Get To Paris: Part I of III

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So you’re planning a trip to Paris! Now comes the fun part…putting all the details together to make it happen. Some people like the idea of travelling until they think of having to plan for it: it can be a bit overwhelming. Since I love details, this is where I can help. This To Do List is what I used to plan my recent trip to Paris, including my spending plan (my more prosperous term over “budget”), which I develop in 3 parts. I refer to Rick Steves’ Paris 2014 guide book because I used it to plan my trip and while I was in Paris to help me navigate. In some instances I have referred to his 2015 Paris guide book.

 

    1.   Determine your bottom line total for your trip. This will likely inform all of your other choices.

My bottom line total for 30 days in Paris was $6,000. I had received a windfall at the end of 2014 and I needed a break, so I decided to visit my favorite place on Earth. Paris is said to be a place of inspiration and where people “find themselves.” I couldn’t agree more. As a result of this trip, I decided to follow my heart and go back to my first love, the first thing I ever wanted to do: be involved with France in any way possible. Something got in the way of me continuing with French many years ago, and I have always regretted it. So now I am writing about Paris, and I love it. I have a sense of purpose that I haven’t had in quite some time. While I hope others like the design of my blog – after all, I want to serve others by imparting information – it is important that I like it. And I do. In many ways, this trip saved my life. I am facing very difficult circumstances now, yes, but I have my writing about Paris to keep me going.

     2.  Determine when you want to go. Busy season (higher prices, warmer weather, longer lines) is generally considered to be May, June, September, October; slow season (more deals to be had, cooler weather, shorter lines) is November through March/April. Generally, airfare to Paris is supposed to go down in winter, though I paid $100 more from the time I first investigated prices in October 2014 to the time I booked my reservation, about two weeks later.

You will pay more for airfare and lodging during the busy season, and while many may not think of going to Paris in the colder season, in my opinion, a bad-weather day in Paris beats a good-weather day…anywhere else. There is always something to discover in Paris no matter the season (such as Christmas decorations during the holidays, for I believe no one does them as elegantly as the French). If you travel to Paris during August, don’t be surprised if you see few Parisians on the streets. Like lawmakers and many locals in Washington, D.C., many Parisians historically vacate Paris in August. When I was there 20 years ago I definitely noticed how uncongested the streets and cafes were; perhaps that has changed somewhat.

In his 2015 Paris guide book, Rick Steves says you should be able to travel to Paris for $195 per day, per person (based on double occupancy). Keep in mind that at the time I’m publishing this post, the exchange rate is better than it was for my trip last year (now, 0.89 euros = $1.00 vs. last year, 1.24 to 1.00). Since the dollar is stronger now you should be able to plan a trip for less than the $195 recommended.

    3.   Get a passport photo taken and apply for your passport as soon as possible. In the U.S., it usually takes 4-6 weeks to get a passport. See the U.S. State Department’s web site for information on getting a passport. To find post offices that offer and accept passport applications, look at USPS’s web site. For information on where to get your passport picture taken, see USA Today’s travel tips.

My passport picture cost $12.00 at CVS/Pharmacy. (It is a perfunctory picture. For my first passport I had a photographer take my picture.) Since my previous personal passport had been stolen (and the last one I used as a contractor for the U.S. State Dept. I had to turn in), I picked up my passport application at a local post office and called to schedule my interview a week later. (The person I needed wasn’t there when I picked up my application.) At the time of the interview, I not only paid the passport application fee, but also for expedited, overnight service for processing my passport. I had to move by a certain date because the house I had been living in had been sold, so I wanted to have my passport in hand as soon as possible. This way, if my application was lost or mangled, I gave myself a time cushion to receive it in time. My passport came in 2 ½ weeks from the time I turned in my application, but only because I paid for such expedited service:

Passport                                                       $110.00

Expedited Processing                                    60.00

Overnight Delivery                                          14.85

Execution Fee to Acceptance Facility          25.00

Sub total                                                    $209.85

Picture                                                                 12.00

Total Cost                                                   $221.85

 

   4.    Determine whether you want to live like royalty or more like a commoner while travelling. Many people prefer to travel for a short amount of time so as to afford to stay in the best hotels. I understand this, but for me, since I would be travelling alone, I would feel isolated staying by myself. I also wanted to stay in Paris as long as possible, live a bit like a Parisian (grocery shop and use a kitchen), and meet other travelers. I chose to live more like a commoner and stay for an extended period in Paris. This meant I would likely be staying in a hostel or an inexpensive hotel.

   5.    Investigate airfare prices for one or two airlines and read the fine print on each airline’s website regarding luggage allowance and their rules of carriage (your rights as a traveler).

I travelled on Turkish Airlines for my latest trip and I loved it. They allowed two free checked pieces, each 23 kg (50 lbs.), and a “personal” item, such as a handbag, laptop case, or umbrella, and my baggage arrived in the same condition as when I left. I was shocked at how much space was available in the overhead compartments. The food and service were divine: We were served dinner soon after takeoff and breakfast before we landed, and the food was exceptional, one might say airline-gourmet. I made a special request for a nail file (mine was in checked baggage because it was sharp) and the flight attendant remembered my request, even with everything else she had to do. The flight had to travel in and out of Istanbul because Turkish Airlines isn’t part of the EU, and therefore doesn’t have hubs in Europe. Not a problem for this traveler: I watched several movies to pass the time and I was very comfortable. I felt chillier than I usually do on flights but I was prepared: I had worn an Ann Taylor wool blazer along with my cashmere sweater and T-shirt that I normally wear on flights due to the sweater’s breathability. There were also plenty of blankets to go around.

Travelers tend to consider only the price of the ticket before booking a reservation. Is a non-refundable ticket worth the low price? If you decide to purchase such airfare consider also purchasing travel insurance with cancellation coverage. True, the combination would mitigate part of your savings, but sometimes last-minute deals might be worth it. (See #6 below.)

When I flew to Paris 20 years ago I used a so-called “cheap” airline. The flight left from Boston so I had to connect via Washington, D.C. I don’t remember how crowded the airline’s ticket counter was for the trip over, but I will never forget the scene I saw when I arrived at Charles de Gaulle Airport to check-in for my flight back to the U.S. 4 hours in advance: It was like I was at a rock concert and everyone was vying to get to the front of the stage. To say that the flight was overbooked is an understatement: it looked like they had triple-booked it. Was $500 airfare roundtrip to Paris worth it? Only because it is my favorite place on Earth. I had to listen to a male Bostonian mouth off about how the French “are so disorganized” when it was the (U.S.-owned) airline’s fault for overbooking. I hope I don’t ever have to do that again.

canstockphoto14925690 (1)6.   Determine whether you need travel insurance. Travel insurance is most often purchased to insure against trip cancellation: for example, if a member of your family became ill and you decided you would have to cancel your trip. Trip Cancellation insurance can provide you with lost expenses. Other coverage is available for emergency medical expenses, not only in-country but transporting a patient home; trip interruption; baggage loss; flight accident; and accidental death. Travel health coverage also covers domestic travel, according to Travelinsurance.com.

Your travel insurance rate will vary depending on total trip cost, primary destination, departure and return dates, traveler ages, country of residence, state (U.S.), citizenship, and trip deposit date.

I used my spending plan total ($5,597.00), June 1 (Monday) and July 1 (Wednesday) of this year as my departure and return dates, respectively, with myself as the sole traveler (age 54), and plugged in the information to Travelinsurance.com to see the rates available. (Note: The form would not allow me to input a deposit amount date.) Here is a sampling:

$  22.00 – “Flight Insure Plus (Single Trip – Flight Only)” by Travel Ex. This offered me:

$300,000 for Flight Accident Protection.

 

$  44.00 – “Flight Insure Plus (Single Trip – Package)” by Travel Ex. This offered me:

$           0 Trip Cancellation Coverage

$           0 Trip Interruption Coverage

$    2,500 Sickness Protection per person, $0 deductible

$    2,500 Accident Protection per person, $0 deductible

$    2,000 Baggage Loss per person

$300,000 Flight Accident per person

$  10,000 Accidental Death per person

 

$  190.50 – “Custom” by CSA. This offered me:

$    5,597 Trip Cancellation

$    8,396 Trip Interruption

$  250,000 Medical Evacuation $0 deductible

$    50,000 Medical Protection, per claim

$      1,000 Baggage Loss per person

$    50,000 Flight Accident per person

$                0 Accidental Death Coverage per person

 

$  630.00 – “Travel Max” by Travel Ex. This offered me extensive coverage in all categories.

I have never had travel insurance, but I am single and have always travelled alone, and I have no major health problems. However, after my research for this post, I am now a believer in travel insurance, even if the sole reason I would buy it would be for baggage loss (what I believe is most likely to happen). When I travel again, I will likely purchase a policy like “Custom” by CSA, above. If you purchase insurance, be sure to understand what type of coverage you’re getting and read reviews of the travel plan/insurance company, if possible. All of the plans I’ve quoted here offered superior ratings from buyers on Travelinsurance.com.

 

 

 

American Films on Paris

Films have the ability to influence the human mind for good -- or not.

Films have the ability to influence the human mind for good — or not.

So, you’re thinking of travelling to Paris! Or perhaps someone has asked you to go to Paris and you’re not sure what to expect. Seeing a movie that deals with Paris is one way to experience The City of Light without actually travelling there.

Or is it? Keeping in mind that one of my goals for this blog is to present thoughtful commentary on cultural issues, American films reflect our culture, and our culture has created a lot of myths and stereotypes of foreigners and foreign cultures: therefore, it makes sense that our films would reflect these myths and stereotypes. While some people might say you shouldn’t take what is depicted in a film so seriously because, after all, “it’s only a movie,” the fact is that what is depicted on film has a way of seeping into a nation’s conscience, similar to propaganda used during war. Think of the recent debacle over The Interview that was about a reporter being recruited to assassinate North Korea’s dictator. The film was actually meant to serve as a seed planted into North Korea’s collective conscience to envision a life without a dictator as their leader. Just like war propaganda can be positive or negative, so too can films plant positive or negative thoughts about a foreign culture into our national conscience. Then, without a thought, we repeat ideas and actions expressed on film and accept those ideas and actions as reality. Does this close American minds to travelling abroad? Do American films influence how Americans perceive foreign cultures even if they do travel? Do American films negatively impact the way Americans are perceived abroad? My reviews of the following films are meant to provoke your thoughts on these matters. May you be a more enlightened traveler because of them.

I have reviewed three American films here: 1) Midnight in Paris, 2) Paris, Je t’aime, and 3) French Kiss. My reviews are based on the following criteria:

  1. A short synopsis of the plot.
  2. Does the film give an accurate portrayal of Paris, Parisians and the French in general?
  3. Does the film seem to say anything about the way (some) Americans behave in Paris and France in general?
  4. Does the film advance negative stereotypes of the French people?

26512_large_Midnight in Paris_Blu_RayMidnight in Paris (2011)

The story is about a writer named Gil (Owen Wilson) and Inez (Rachel McAdams), an engaged couple who travel to Paris with her parents when her father (Kurt Fuller) has business to conduct there. The engaged couple meet up with another couple, Paul (Michael Sheen) and Carol (Nina Arianda); Paul is an old flame of Inez’s. The differences between Gil and Inez become more evident when Gil goes out for a walk late at night around the city instead of going dancing with the other three. He is magically transported to 1920s Paris at the strike of midnight, and finds himself mingling with people of his favorite era – Hemmingway, F. Scott Fitzgerald, Gertrude Stein, to name a few. In this former era he uncovers some truths about himself and his relationship, and makes changes in his life as a result. His midnight stroll into an earlier era is a metaphor for him looking back at an earlier time in his life when he wanted to be a “serious writer” and write novels instead of being a “Hollywood hired hand” writing scripts.

If you only have time to see one movie on Paris, see this. The first four minutes are the most beautiful scenes of Paris I have ever seen on film. In addition, Paris is a character in the film: some directors use Paris as little more than a backdrop for their stories: in this film, Paris is a character, an integral part of the story. The City of Light draws you in with its splendor and simplicity. If Manhattan is Woody Allen’s love letter to New York, it is probably safe to say that Midnight in Paris is his love letter to Paris. I believe he captures the feeling, movement, energy and charm of Paris and the French people in general. Gabrielle (Lea Seydoux, a Bond girl in the upcoming Spectre film), whom Gil meets working in a shop that sells old records and the like (and is therefore appealing to him since she appreciates 1920s Paris), represents all that is good about the French people: she enjoys what she does, she smiles when she speaks, spends time with friends eating a leisurely dinner, and finds Paris most appealing in the rain.

Woody Allen seems to comment on some Americans’ boorish behavior in Paris. Inez’s flaws remind me of a character in a J.D. Salinger short story: She is a narcissist, concerned with her wants and desires while putting her fiance’s desires second, or maybe even third. (She has a fling with Paul and then tells Gil to “get over it.”) She values money over him being happy, tells him not to wake her up when he will be coming in later than she, and is seen constantly thinking about the material possessions she will acquire as a result of this union. Her father doesn’t respect France’s socialism or political views, even though France is allowing his company to merge with a French company. Her mother (Mimi Kennedy) is a jabbering provoker. The entire family values money over anything else. Unfortunately, this depiction of some Americans’ behavior in Paris is accurate—not only have I been told about it by people of several cultures, including the French, I have seen it firsthand. And, when I asked for feedback about how Americans are perceived by the French when I was in Paris recently, the most common complaint I heard was that Americans “are only interested in making money.” The French value human relationships and enjoying life over striving for the almighty dollar (Euro!). When you go to Paris, take notice of how close the French people sit next to one another, how they lean in toward one another, as though everything they say is a confidence to be shared only with those at their table. French people can sit in a café and talk for hours. The pace of life is slower in France, and is meant to be

Marion Cotilliard in a scene from "Midnight in Paris."

Marion Cotillard in a scene from “Midnight in Paris.”

One note about Gil visiting 1920s Paris. He meets a woman named Adriana (Marion Cotillard) and begins to question his life choices with Inez as a result. Gil and Adriana walk from Moulin Rouge, to the Seine River and back again. At night. With her in heels. Take it from me, that is A LOT of walking. If you try to retrace their steps, wear very good walking shoes.

1036_front_Paris je taimeParis, je t’aime (Paris, I Love You) (2006)

This film is actually a collection of 20, 5-minute films, one for each Paris arrondissement (similar to a county in the U.S.), each by a different director. Some of the stories are more fantasy-based than others. What I took away from this film is that while we have our cultural differences, human nature is the same everywhere. It is a beautiful film on love and the human condition, and I highly recommend it.

Ludivine Sagnier, an actress in the “Parc Monceau” segment (8th arrondissement) made an interesting comment in the interview Extras section: She said that the French don’t renew their city and that they need others to come to Paris and do it. They need fresh eyes to help them see what they don’t. I hope when you go to Paris you will remind Parisians how beautiful their city is, how much you enjoy their food and their company, and what a joy it is to be in a place where enjoying life is paramount.

57939_large_French Kiss_Blu_RayFrench Kiss (1995)

Kate (Meg Ryan) is engaged to Charlie (Timothy Bottoms). Kate has a fear of flying and so decides not to go to Paris on a business trip with her fiancé. Charlie meets a French woman (Juliette) almost immediately and proposes marriage. Kate decides to fly to Paris to retrieve her fiancé, but not before meeting a French thief named Luc (Kevin Kline) on the plane. He tells her he will help her win back Charlie while slipping in a stolen necklace in her handbag that he hopes to retrieve. The two have adventures in which they grow as people and as a couple.

Paris serves as a mere background for this film, meaning that the story could have been told in just about any foreign country with monuments. I got the feeling that shots with Paris monuments were mere “establish” shots, such as when Kate is in a phone booth on the Champs-Elysees and the camera captures the Arc de Triomphe in the near-background. Also, when Kate and Luc travel by train they just happen to pass the Eiffel Tower. Worse, these establish shots are fake: I was in Paris around the time French Kiss was filmed, and I never saw a glass phone booth in this location. Also, a train does not travel in front or in back of the Eiffel Tower as depicted. While directors frequently take creative license in such scenes in movies, Paris is one of the world’s most visited cities, so the city’s layout and cultural monoliths are well-known the world over. Although fictional, French Kiss wants to be believed, but the fictional portrayal of storied landmarks gives it an air of unreality.

As I previously stated, films can make an impact on the human mind, and, in turn, influence behavior. One example in French Kiss is the phrase Kate uses that makes the hair on the back of my neck stand up: before she calls Charlie’s new fiancée a “bitch” she says, “Pardon my French.” How many Americans are guilty of saying “pardon my French” before or after speaking a dirty word, as though every dirty word is of French origin? The French don’t have a monopoly on dirty words; every culture has them. Yet, generations of Americans have repeated this slur – and why wouldn’t we, since it is often used in movies and television shows to “emphasize the meaning of a less offensive word without violating censorship or rating guidelines” (Wikipedia). And according to the Urban Dictionary, the phrase “…originates from the constant warfare between England and France many years ago (that is, in the 1300s), at [the] time [when] ‘French’ was associated with indecent things and activities (swearing, kissing, etc.).”

Unbelievably, the first Americans left England for the New World long after this warfare ended, and England and France have long had diplomatic relations (!). Since the U.S. is not a part of England and England is no longer at war with France, anyway, how about serving as an example for others and not using this oft-repeated phrase? If you are reading this blog, chances are high that you care something about international relations. Please do your part, small though it may be, and stop blaming the French for every curse word. While we certainly have diplomatic relations with France, the U.S. sometimes seems to be in a culture war with them: we blame the French for being rude while many of us don’t even try to learn basic French phrases before travelling there, we demand them to cater us when we are visitors in their country, and the U.S. treats France as though they are a step-child in world affairs. France has been a major player in world and European affairs: it is a founding member of the U.N. and the E.U., and is a member of many other international organizations, such as NATO and the World Trade Organization. Small countries like France play an integral part in the global community whether the U.S. wants to acknowledge it or not.

As for Kate in French Kiss telling Juliette “pardon my French” before referring to her as a “bitch,” Kate was quite mistaken. The use of “bitch” to describe an objectionable woman has been in use since the 13th century, and according to Wikipedia, likely has its origins in the Old English term bicche, meaning “female dog.”

Salut.

 

 

Film posters and clips used by permission of Blu-ray.com. Wikipedia reference to page “Bitch (insult).” Urban Dictionary reference to page “Pardon my French.”