As a Blogger on Paris, I Went ‘Missing.’ Here’s Why.

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Aaaarrrrrrggggghhhhhhhhhhh. Not another technological glitch. Not again.

I am a blogger on Paris. I write about travelling there, navigating the City of Light, recommend hotels and restaurants, and cultural misunderstandings. I started to do this after I suffered a major blow in my life and lost everything. As luck would have it, I came into a windfall not long afterwards, and I decided what I needed most was a change of surroundings — to travel — and nowhere else speaks to my heart like Paris.

So off to Paris for a month I went. Since it was my third time there, I had already seen the major sites, but I revisited many of them, especially the Eiffel Tower, since my pictures of Paris were among my many possessions that were lost. I savored every French sign, every cappuccino, every meal, every daybreak, as though it would be my last. While there, I decided that what I wanted most was to be involved with France in any way I could. Although I had travelled prepared with my resume on a USB to apply for jobs while in Paris, when I went to print it, the resume disappeared without a trace from my USB and the computer. So I decided when I got back to the U.S., I would get involved with France in any way I could. Since I like to write, I decided to blog about Paris, with the hope that it would open a door for me to live and work in France.

I love what I do, though I admit I’m doing a different kind of writing than I imagined. Blogging about my experiences in Paris, like I did when I published my travel journal last July, is a different kind of writing than writing recommendations on travel gadgets I haven’t used and hotels I haven’t stayed in. Still, I wanted to expand my blog’s horizons by featuring a monthly series on Fridays: first on destination weddings in Paris, and then on adding French flair to your home. While writing the third post in the latter’s series, the post seemed to acquire a mind of its own and decided, unequivocally, it didn’t want to be finished. I lost the internet connection every two minutes (I know the timing because WordPress helpfully lets me know). Images wouldn’t load. The post wouldn’t update. Oddly, I didn’t have much trouble visiting other sites. Sure, my computer seemed a bit slower than usual, but I didn’t lose the internet connection while visiting other sites. I checked EVERYTHING, especially with my web host. They said, Nope. No trouble here. I was left scratching my head trying to figure out why I couldn’t finish this post….because, no, I DON’T actually believe a post can have a mind of its own.

Then I remembered I had recently acquired a new smartphone, because, SURPRISE, my 16-month old smartphone decided to STOP WORKING ON THE EXACT SAME DAY AS MY TIME RAN OUT ON MY PAY-AS-YOU-GO PHONE that I’ve had since 2008. Talk about coincidence. My life is full of them!! (Take that, my fellow Seinfeldians.) And I use the smartphone’s HotSpot for my blog, because the owner of my house can’t tell me how to use the FIOS internet connection. Which I pay for. God, I love my life.

Anyway, I digress. I called my phone carrier, and sure enough, after we deleted the settings for my HotSpot and re-selected them, my phone became so fast that the technician helping me told me my phone was “so blazing fast” that it was faster than his — and his building has a cell tower on top of it! Naturally, the pages don’t continue to load as fast as when I had him on the phone, because a car never works the same way after you leave the mechanic. But at least I’ll be able to finish the post that I had to table.

So. I wanted the few readers I have out there in cyberspace that I DID NOT die, I WAS NOT kidnapped by aliens, and  I DID NOT lose interest in my blog. Luckily, I had a draft ready to publish during this time. Afterwards, I concentrated on my French lessons (“Learn French with Alexa” on YouTube) to get re-energized and back on track. To this end, I decided that, from time to time, I am going to write a post about my experience as an American trying to get to France, as in, living and working there.

See you next week.

A bientot! (See you later!)

 

 

Blogging on Paris for 6 Months: I Never Would Have Known…

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Blogging about Paris has expanded my world in ways I couldn’t have counted on, like introducing me to French pop music. To me, Garou — who’s featured in the YouTube video — sounds like American singer Gordon Lightfoot — with a dash of French soul.

As of yesterday, November 29, I’ve been blogging about Paris for six months. I thought I’d share how my involvement with Paris has helped me, and some of the lessons I’ve learned along the way.

My trip to Paris last year saved my life. I don’t mean to overstate a point, but it is the truth. I’ve been through a great deal — including losing everything I owned prior to 2009 — and I wondered how I would ever “get my groove back.” Devastating pain made me remember what was first important to me, and France was the first thing I ever really cared about as a kid. I always wanted to hear about it, read about it, visit the country — which I first did in 1976 — and eat French food. In fact, the first thing I ever cooked was a crepe. (And I didn’t burn the house down.) With a surprise windfall, I went to Paris last year for a month and decided to write about it. As a result, I have a zest for life that I haven’t had in a long time.

Blogging (and my Paris trip) has opened the door to new opportunities. I discovered TripAdvisor and am now a Top Contributor with over 20,000 readers: My TripAdvisor reviews help to build my brand and give me writing experience. Who would have thought 20,000 people would be interested in what I have to say? Not me! Also, my website/blog has helped me improve my technological skills: I’ve learned about the technical points of digital imaging, become proficient in uploading digital images using a variety of platforms, learned WordPress, and how to use Google Maps and Google Earth (God-sends for anyone trying to immerse themselves in a foreign culture). While it has been challenging, I’ve enjoyed every minute of it. In addition, the devastation I’ve faced plus the challenging, rewarding experience of blogging has opened the door to me being featured in an upcoming issue of “Women of Distinction Magazine.” I am excited and honored to be featured in it.

Blogging well is harder and more time-consuming than I thought. Any writer knows that to write well, one has to read a lot. I’ve generally been an avid reader, but I haven’t been able to read as much as I’d like. Consequently, my writing has suffered: More often than I’d like to admit, the prose has been stuck in my head. I’m going to try writing draft posts on paper like I did before I published: There seems to be something to words flowing from my head to pen to paper that gets my creative juices working. Admittedly, it isn’t just writing that takes an enormous amount of time. Sometimes I have to learn to do something new before using an image. Also, looking for just the right image for a post can set me back, since I’m not satisfied with just any image — it has to be the right one. 

I am immersing myself in French culture and I love it. I don’t want to just help people get to Paris, I also want to educate people on French culture and clarify myths and misconceptions. This means, of course, that I have to first learn (as an example) the origin of the phrase “pardon my French” before uttering a curse word came about before I can write about it. (The phrase evolved in England during the Hundred Years War between England and France in the 13th century: the English blamed all things vulgar as being from France.)

Speaking of the French language: I am so excited to say I’m (finally) learning French! I took French a long time ago (in a galaxy far, far away) and my circumstances at the time conspired to force me to drop it. It is one of the things I regret most about my early life. Immersing myself in French culture helped open this door for me. I found a great workbook (“French” by Danielle de Gregory) and French flash cards (by Quickstudy), and “Learn French With Alexa” videos on Youtube is the final piece of the learn-French trifecta that brings it all together. I previously learned English by phonics; Alexa is just what I was looking for in a French teacher.  She is French and has many years’ experience teaching French. She knows what she’s doing and she’s so funny, too. I also listen to RJM French Radio on the TuneIn radio app to help me learn French. Some of my favorite artists include Garou (oh, my, I love his voice), Celine Dion, Louane (“Jour un”), Johnny Hallyday, (“J’ai oublie de vivre”), and Christine and the Queens’ “Ca ne tient pas debout.” With the release of “La Vie en Rose” in 2008, I already had been introduced to Edith Piaf, one of the greatest French singers ever. French pop music is just as delightful to my ears.

I continue to seek ways to work and live in Paris. My heart and mind are with the victims and their families of the November 13th attacks. People have asked me if I was glad I wasn’t in Paris then; to the contrary, I wish I was there to give comfort and hope where they are needed.

 

Vive la France!