Paris Trip Day 1

Turkish Airlines is the #1 ranked airline in Europe. It is a well-deserved reputation.

Turkish Airlines is the #1 ranked airline in Europe. It is a well-deserved reputation.

Tuesday. I arrived at Dulles Airport last night with too much time on my hands because I didn’t want to take Metro late at night. I read my booklet on my new phone, called T-Mobile a few times with questions, and sat around and waited. Turkish Airlines’ counter didn’t open until a couple of hours before takeoff so I was a bit bored. Once I could check in, I was able to go to the terminal, where there are more places to eat and simply more shops in general. While waiting to board I met a woman named Sharon who is getting married. She is meeting her fiancé in Barcelona. It was nice having someone to talk to at Dulles because I was there for a long time, I’m not much of a night person, and was very tired by the time we boarded. I believe what the experts say: You tend to eat too much when you’re tired. They aren’t kidding!

The flight left Dulles Airport on time at 11:30 P.M. I watched the Jack Ryan movie with Chris Pine and three other movies to make the time go by. (Well, 2 ½ more movies.) My legs felt a bit cramped, and it was much colder in the cabin than I’ve ever experienced before: Good thing I was wearing not only my blue cashmere Pringle V-neck sweater (with a white shirt) but also my black Ann Taylor wool blazer – I would have been freezing without the layers. (Now I sound like a J. Peterman catalogue.) What I couldn’t get over was how much space there was in the overhead compartments! The flight was full, yet there seemed to be plenty of room to be had in the overheads. I can’t remember that ever happening on another airline. The food on Turkish Airlines was very good. I only felt bad because the flight attendants woke up a seatmate so he would eat. He wasn’t too thrilled until he had some wine. A very handsome man was seated behind me. It made the flight more interesting, but I was also a bit suspicious, since he seemed a little TOO interested in me. He was, after all, a lot younger than I am.

We landed in Istanbul for a short lay-over before boarding to Paris. We had a PERFECT flight from Dulles. I couldn’t get over how clean the airport is in Istanbul. No drama, no loud noises. I did notice, however, a man sticking his head into the ladies bathroom to make sure everything was as it should be. I was not the only one who seemed to be a bit taken aback—the women in line seemed a little nervous about having a man putting his head into the ladies room—but they seemed to get over it. (They just eyed him a little suspiciously.) I had a cappuccino and talked to Sharon until I boarded my plane. Everyone around us who was on the flight talked about what a perfect flight it was. No wonder Turkish Airlines is top-rated in Europe. A fun fact I learned: Turkey isn’t part of the European Union so they can’t have a hub in Europe; this is why they have to fly from Dulles (and other cities) to Istanbul, and from there fly to Europe and other destinations.

Meg Ryan and Kevin Kline in a familiar passaage way in Charles de Galle Airport, from "French Kiss."

Meg Ryan and Kevin Kline in a familiar passageway in Charles de Galle Airport, from “French Kiss.”

I arrived at Charles de Gaulle Airport very late and very tired. We had to walk very, very far in the airport to pick up our luggage, and our trip included going up a few escalators. (And my feet were killing me!) We were cautioned not to get into a taxi with any driver who was hanging around the airport. We were told to only get a taxi outside certain doors because they would be legitimate taxis. We queued up and the line seemed to move…fairly quickly. Then it was my turn. The man who was assigning taxis asked me where I was going. I showed him a piece of paper on which I had written the name of my hostel, its address, and phone number. The first taxi didn’t know where it was. I was assigned another taxi and he told the man he THINKS he knows where the hostel is. Only as we started to drive away did I notice, much to my horror, it looked like he didn’t have a credit card machine. I doubted I had changed enough dollars to Euros for the ride. I was correct. He didn’t have a machine and he had to stop at an ATM to allow me to get cash. I was worried that this might be one of the machines that charges an exorbitant fee but it didn’t. I just wish I hadn’t been quite so tired.

Luckily, Plug-Inn Hostel has a huge banner outside its door, so even a weary traveler or cab driver would see it. I got in at 11:30 P.M. The staff person on duty first took my payment for the two nights I reserved. When I found out that my original understanding was correct – the hostel was 26 Euros a night, or $35 – I reserved a bed for the rest of my time here. I paid for that separately, though I was told I would have to stay elsewhere Saturday night because they were completely booked. Not a problem. Then, I was helped to my room and bed. I was in bed within minutes. It was a very smooth check-in process. The common area when you walk in is just as lovely as their pictures on the web. I just know I’m going to love it here at Plug-Inn Hostel.

 

Salut!

 

 

 

Image from “French Kiss” used by permission of Blu-ray.com.

Foreword to 30-Day Paris Trip Diary

All packed and ready to go to Paris.

All packed and ready to go to Paris.

In previous posts, I shared a “To Do” list to plan a trip to Paris, wrote about how to pick a travel wardrobe and travel gear, and how to pack everything so you can find it. So, it’s time to travel to Paris!

I’m all packed and ready to go. (No, this isn’t my luggage. Remember, I’m trying to advocate using anything but black luggage.)

For the next 30 days, I will be publishing my travel diary that I wrote during my recent trip to Paris, along with additions based on my Filofax daily planner entries, receipts (what I kept), bank statements, cell phone records, and my long-term memory, which is significantly better than my short-term. I can remember beating the two fastest guys in the 100-yard dash in fourth grade, but if you ask me what I had for lunch yesterday I’d probably have to think about it. You will notice I make a lot of references to Rick Steves’ Paris 2014 guide book: I used it extensively during my trip. I can’t say enough good things about the travel advice Rick gives.

Sometimes I’ve talked about how much money I’ve spent and how I feel about it. I don’t go through life putting a price tag on everything because you can’t put a price tag on life experiences. I’ve talked about these experiences as information for my readers. (Hopefully, I have a few by now.) Also, some days I have a lot to say, and other days…not so much.

All names have been changed except for hostel management and public figures.

I make several references to the television program Seinfeld, so if an observation doesn’t make sense, it’s probably a reference to that program.

I make a few references to “Fancy Boy Idiots.” This is actually a pseudonym (or nom de guerre) for a U.S. government agency. I’m sure you can figure it out once you think about it.

Salut.

 

Maps of France, Paris, and the Paris Metro

If you’re travelling to Paris, you’ll want to orient yourself. Here, I have provided a map of France, Paris, and the Paris Metro, and a little about them.

France

A map of France.

A map of France.

Metropolitan France is divided into 22 regions; those regions are further subdivided into 96 departments. There are an additional 5 regions (divided into 5 departments) overseas. Paris is in the Ile-de-France region (if France was a person, Ile-de-France would be located at the “heart”). Other points of interest include the area known as the South of France (southern France), Cannes, where the Cannes Film Festival is held each May, and the Pyrenees, the Alps, and the Champs-Elysees in Paris, where the Tour de France passes through and finishes.

A rider on the Les Pyrenees.

A rider on the Les Pyrenees.

 

 

 

 

 

Paris

A map of Paris arrondissements.

A map of Paris arrondissements.

The city of Paris is divided into 20 arrondissements (administrative districts) arranged in a clockwise spiral, often referred to as a snail shell, though it has always reminded me of The Yellow Brick Road in “The Wizard of Oz,” with the Seine River flowing east-west down the center. The spiral begins with #1 arrondissement in the middle of the city on the Right Bank (north bank) of the Seine. Paris arrondissement numbers are also the last two digits of the district’s postal code, so the 18th arrondissement’s postal code (where I stayed recently) is 75018. You will likely see signs with an arrondissement’s number displayed as Roman numerals, so the 18th arrondissement number would be XVIIIe arrondissement. There are so many Metro stations that Parisians often refer to a location referencing the closest Metro stop.

Paris Metro

The Paris Metro.

The Paris Metro.

The Paris Metro opened on July 19, 1900 during the World’s Fair. It has 303 stations, of which 62 have transfers between lines. There are 16 lines, numbered 1 to 14 with 2 lines, 3bis and 7bis, which are so named because they started as branches of lines 3 and 7. They are now separate lines. Lines are identified on maps by number and color, and direction of travel is indicated by its terminus.

You can use cash or a credit/debit card to buy tickets, which can be used for the Metro, and RER rail and buses (within the city). You can buy single tickets for 1.75 Euros, a carnet of 10 tickets for 13.30 Euros, or a Passe Navigo card for a 5 Euro fee (plus the cost of a small photo of yourself), which is a chip-embedded card similar to a SmarTrip card in the States or an Oyster card in London. The Metro tickets never expire, but it’s best to keep used tickets separate from unused, and keep your most-recently used ticket separate from all others: French police often check for gate-jumpers by asking to see your Metro ticket.  I was stopped at least twice, and the first time I panicked because I had all of my used tickets together, including my most recent one. (I don’t mean to give the impression that trashcans aren’t available. I had collected some from a full day’s sightseeing.)

Navigating the Metro is easy; the hardest part can be finding your destination on the Metro map due to the number of lines. If you start by venturing to attractions close to your lodging, you’ll get the hang of it.

Paris Metro signs are among the most elegant in the world.

Paris Metro signs are among the most elegant in the world.

 

Salut.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Descriptions of maps from Wikipedia, CCBY 3.0. Maps of France, Paris and the Paris Metro courtesy of Flickr, CCBY 2.0.

Packing Part II: Packing So You Can Find It When You Want It (For Women)

It's that last 10-15% that makes you want to sit on your suitcase. What if it opened en route to your destination?

It’s that last 10-15% that makes you want to sit on your suitcase. What if it opened en route to your destination?

In “Packing Part I: How to Select Your Best Travel Wardrobe and Gear (For Women),” I explained how I made my wardrobe selections for my month-long trip to Paris, as well as make recommendations on what travel gear to take. Now for “Packing Part II: Packing So You Can Find It When You Want It (For Women).”

If you recall, I purchased three new luggage items: a travel handbag, a backpack to use as a carry-on, and a Samsonite spinner suitcase. I sprayed all of them with a fabric protector and allowed all three pieces to dry for 24 hours. While the luggage items were drying, I gathered together my wardrobe selections, travel gear, and my secret packing weapon, three sizes of Ziploc bags: sandwich-sized, 2-gallon, and the large Travel Space Bags ($7.99, found at the Container Store), along with sticky notes.

Ziploc Travel Space Bags keep your items organized and save space in your suitcase.

Ziploc Travel Space Bags keep your items organized and save space in your suitcase.

Packing using resealable plastic bags saves space in your baggage, time while travelling, and possible aggravation. If you want to find a particular garment, you can easily go through the bags, find the item, and repack. Without the bags, you have to constantly refold everything whenever you try to find a particular garment. (This is why I don’t use Eagle Creek Pack-It Folders and the like, though their higher price doesn’t help.) Talk about time consuming! Since it helps to use a color scheme for a travel wardrobe, you will probably have several items that are the same color: use a sticky note to identify these items, and put the note inside the bag.

Before you purchase plastic bags that save space by vacuuming out the air, think about this: Where will you find a vacuum cleaner at your destination so you can save the same amount of space for your return trip? One must learn to think ahead.

ELSA’S TIPS: 1) Buy several 2-gallon Ziploc plastic bag boxes because you will likely need more than you think. 2) When using Ziploc’s Travel Space Bags, put the bulky garment(s) in the bag and close the bag about ¾ of the way before rolling it from the opposite end (of the zipper) to extinguish the air. The way I read the directions, it appears you are supposed to close the zipper completely and then roll it…but if you do that the air has nowhere to go. (I tried several times.) 3) Pack items that you frequently wear together or use together in the same bag, if possible. I put a blouse and skirt together in the same 2-gallon bag, and in a sandwich bag I put band-aids and Neosporin.

After putting everything in plastic bags, follow a process of elimination of sorts: “Eliminate” items (pack them) by putting those that must be packed in each bag. For me, this meant my wardrobe selections, major personal care items, and my Swiss Army knife (which has a corkscrew, bottle opener and a small knife for winter picnics and use in the hostel’s kitchen) went into my suitcase to be checked. In my carry-on backpack, I then put everything I wanted on the plane with me: my 3-1-1 toiletries, guidebooks, travel diary, travel slippers, a sticky garment cleaner, and my 3 pairs of shoes. (Yes, this is more than most travel experts recommend, but my feet hurt when I wear any one pair too many days in a row.) I realized my travel blow-dryer would not fit in my carry-on, which in turn would crowd out my major toiletries that I could not bring onto the plane (thanks to the 3-1-1 rule). Since I was not going to do without my toiletries, I had to narrow down my garment selections by taking out SEVERAL items that were not in the black-white-grey color scheme. I also couldn’t take Epsom salt in a bag (to soak my feet in). As I have learned from travelling, it’s the last 10-15% of your items that make you want to sit on your suitcase to close it. (And what if it broke?!) Save yourself the aggravation and do a trial run by packing EVERYTHING you want to take with you on your trip. If you can’t fit everything you want to take, you won’t have to make bad last-minute decisions.

Using plastic bags to pack is not a new concept. But if you use this idea, be prepared for questions. Remember the U.S. Customs Agent I dealt with in Packing Part I? I was coming home from being out of the U.S. for a month: He gave me a very hard time because I packed using Ziploc plastic bags. I got the idea he thought only people who want to transport contraband use plastic bags in their suitcase. (In all honesty, he was already upset that I had not bought much for being a month overseas. There was not much to buy (that is, souvenirs) in Kazakhstan back then.) As I explained, “This way, when Customs goes through my lingerie, I won’t have to worry about it flying all over everywhere for others to see.” He put down the plastic bag containing my lingerie and looked me square in the eye. He could tell I meant business and sent me on my merry way.

Samsonite Spinner

Samsonite Spinner

Here is how I packed:

CHECKED BAG (SPINNER SUITCASE)

2 prs. Black pants (1 pr.from Cache, 1 pr. travel pants)

1 black pencil skirt (for Mass at Notre Dame and my dinner cruise)

Black & White Herringbone 3/4-sleeved jacket (a little dressy)

Black Velvet Chico long-sleeved Button-up cardigan

Black & White striped Ralph Lauren long-sleeved blouse (a little dressy)

Black Jones of New York (Cotton) long-sleeved blouse

Black long-sleeved scoop-neck (Cotton) shirt

Black V-neck long-sleeved Ireland (Acrylic) sweater

Black long-sleeved (Cotton) turtleneck

White Long-sleeved (Cotton) shirt

Lavender ¾-sleeved (cotton/nylon) sweater with black detailing and bow

Black & White striped short-sleeved (Rayon/Nylon/Spandex) sweater

Black short-sleeved (Rayon/Cotton) turtleneck sweater

2 White short-sleeved (Cotton) shirts

Black Anorak hooded rain jacket

Blue Under Armor Zippered jacket

Black Cuddl Duds Long-sleeved undergarment

Grey short-sleeved (Rayon/Nylon) turtleneck sweater (had to take out)

Blue short-sleeved cotton blouse (had to take out)

Black & White Infinity Scarf (had to take out)

Black (Velvet) Scarf (had to take out)

Lingerie

4 prs. Black tights

Travel blow dryer

Hair spray

Baby wipes

Scissors

Nail care items

Personal care items not allowed on plane (including laundry soap and fluid makeup)

16 packs of personal Kleenex tissue (10 per pack) (packed in inside zipper, on top of suitcase hardware, as well as several grocery bags and a foldable, plastic shopping bag with handles)

Epsom Salt (had to take out)

Delicates laundry bag

Swiss Army Knife

Leather Fanny Pack

Ogio Backpack.

Ogio Backpack.

BACKPACK CARRY-ON

3 pairs of shoes (5 prs. socks inside shoes)

Travel bedroom slippers

Pajamas

Sleeping mask

Prescription

Magic Marker (to label food in hostel refrigerator)

Flashlight (to use outside and to navigate in the room without waking up roommates)

AAA batteries

3-1-1 personal items

Small lint brush

L’Oreal makeup remover sheets

Non-fluid makeup items

Foot roller (ball)

Travel books/Travel Diary/Pamphlets on new electronics (phone, camera)

Chargers for cell phones, camera

Pens

Umbrella

Hershey Kisses (had to take out)

Hugger Backpack Travel Purse by Baggallini.

Hugger Backpack by Baggallini Travel Purse.

 

TRAVEL HANDBAG

Filofax Daily Planner

Sunglasses

Reading glasses

Make up

Camera

Pocket Tissues

Pen

2 cell phones

Zella Yoga Pants, perfect for curling up in a plane seat for a night flight to Paris.

Zella Yoga Pants, perfect for curling up in a plane seat for a night flight to Paris.

 

WORE ON PLANE:

Black Zella (Polyester/Spandex) Yoga pants

Black tights

Black Ann Taylor (Wool) blazer with pockets

Pringle blue V-neck (Cashmere) sweater

White long-sleeved (Cotton) shirt

Money belt w/money and passport

Purple overcoat (Wool) with black detailing (carried in bag on plane to protect it in overhead bin)

Black (Wool) scarf

Black Earmuffs

Black short booties

Earrings, ring, sports watch that could take abuse

 

To recap:

  1. Prior to your trip, do a trial run by gathering together all of your wardrobe selections, travel gear and toiletries and pack them in your baggage.
  2. Use resealable plastic bags (such as Ziploc) to store them in prior to packing, along with sticky notes to identify items that are hard to identify through the bags.
  3. Pack using a process of elimination: Put what must go into each bag first, then prioritize what you would like to have with you on the plane.
  4. Wear your bulkiest items on the plane, if possible, to save space.

 

If you need to convince yourself to spend the time packing with plastic bags:

1) They prevent you from having to refold everything when you want to find a particular garment.

2) They save space in your baggage.

3) They protect your items in your suitcase if they happen to fall out – whether as a result of your suitcase breaking or Customs going through your belongings haphazardly.

4) They are cost-effective.

 

Using resealable plastic bags involves an initial time investment, but well worth the payoffs.

 

Salut!

 

 

 

 

Ziploc Travel Space Bags image courtesy of Alibaba.com, CCBY 2.0.  Samonsonite Spinner image courtesy of Indulgy.com, CCBY 2.0. Ogio Backpack image courtesy of Ogio.com, CCBY 2.0. Hugger Backpack by Baggallini Travel Purse image courtesy of The Container Store, CCBY 2.0. Zella Yoga Pants image courtesy of Poshmark.com, CCBY 2.0.

 

American Films on Paris

Films have the ability to influence the human mind for good -- or not.

Films have the ability to influence the human mind for good — or not.

So, you’re thinking of travelling to Paris! Or perhaps someone has asked you to go to Paris and you’re not sure what to expect. Seeing a movie that deals with Paris is one way to experience The City of Light without actually travelling there.

Or is it? Keeping in mind that one of my goals for this blog is to present thoughtful commentary on cultural issues, American films reflect our culture, and our culture has created a lot of myths and stereotypes of foreigners and foreign cultures: therefore, it makes sense that our films would reflect these myths and stereotypes. While some people might say you shouldn’t take what is depicted in a film so seriously because, after all, “it’s only a movie,” the fact is that what is depicted on film has a way of seeping into a nation’s conscience, similar to propaganda used during war. Think of the recent debacle over The Interview that was about a reporter being recruited to assassinate North Korea’s dictator. The film was actually meant to serve as a seed planted into North Korea’s collective conscience to envision a life without a dictator as their leader. Just like war propaganda can be positive or negative, so too can films plant positive or negative thoughts about a foreign culture into our national conscience. Then, without a thought, we repeat ideas and actions expressed on film and accept those ideas and actions as reality. Does this close American minds to travelling abroad? Do American films influence how Americans perceive foreign cultures even if they do travel? Do American films negatively impact the way Americans are perceived abroad? My reviews of the following films are meant to provoke your thoughts on these matters. May you be a more enlightened traveler because of them.

I have reviewed three American films here: 1) Midnight in Paris, 2) Paris, Je t’aime, and 3) French Kiss. My reviews are based on the following criteria:

  1. A short synopsis of the plot.
  2. Does the film give an accurate portrayal of Paris, Parisians and the French in general?
  3. Does the film seem to say anything about the way (some) Americans behave in Paris and France in general?
  4. Does the film advance negative stereotypes of the French people?

26512_large_Midnight in Paris_Blu_RayMidnight in Paris (2011)

The story is about a writer named Gil (Owen Wilson) and Inez (Rachel McAdams), an engaged couple who travel to Paris with her parents when her father (Kurt Fuller) has business to conduct there. The engaged couple meet up with another couple, Paul (Michael Sheen) and Carol (Nina Arianda); Paul is an old flame of Inez’s. The differences between Gil and Inez become more evident when Gil goes out for a walk late at night around the city instead of going dancing with the other three. He is magically transported to 1920s Paris at the strike of midnight, and finds himself mingling with people of his favorite era – Hemmingway, F. Scott Fitzgerald, Gertrude Stein, to name a few. In this former era he uncovers some truths about himself and his relationship, and makes changes in his life as a result. His midnight stroll into an earlier era is a metaphor for him looking back at an earlier time in his life when he wanted to be a “serious writer” and write novels instead of being a “Hollywood hired hand” writing scripts.

If you only have time to see one movie on Paris, see this. The first four minutes are the most beautiful scenes of Paris I have ever seen on film. In addition, Paris is a character in the film: some directors use Paris as little more than a backdrop for their stories: in this film, Paris is a character, an integral part of the story. The City of Light draws you in with its splendor and simplicity. If Manhattan is Woody Allen’s love letter to New York, it is probably safe to say that Midnight in Paris is his love letter to Paris. I believe he captures the feeling, movement, energy and charm of Paris and the French people in general. Gabrielle (Lea Seydoux, a Bond girl in the upcoming Spectre film), whom Gil meets working in a shop that sells old records and the like (and is therefore appealing to him since she appreciates 1920s Paris), represents all that is good about the French people: she enjoys what she does, she smiles when she speaks, spends time with friends eating a leisurely dinner, and finds Paris most appealing in the rain.

Woody Allen seems to comment on some Americans’ boorish behavior in Paris. Inez’s flaws remind me of a character in a J.D. Salinger short story: She is a narcissist, concerned with her wants and desires while putting her fiance’s desires second, or maybe even third. (She has a fling with Paul and then tells Gil to “get over it.”) She values money over him being happy, tells him not to wake her up when he will be coming in later than she, and is seen constantly thinking about the material possessions she will acquire as a result of this union. Her father doesn’t respect France’s socialism or political views, even though France is allowing his company to merge with a French company. Her mother (Mimi Kennedy) is a jabbering provoker. The entire family values money over anything else. Unfortunately, this depiction of some Americans’ behavior in Paris is accurate—not only have I been told about it by people of several cultures, including the French, I have seen it firsthand. And, when I asked for feedback about how Americans are perceived by the French when I was in Paris recently, the most common complaint I heard was that Americans “are only interested in making money.” The French value human relationships and enjoying life over striving for the almighty dollar (Euro!). When you go to Paris, take notice of how close the French people sit next to one another, how they lean in toward one another, as though everything they say is a confidence to be shared only with those at their table. French people can sit in a café and talk for hours. The pace of life is slower in France, and is meant to be

Marion Cotilliard in a scene from "Midnight in Paris."

Marion Cotillard in a scene from “Midnight in Paris.”

One note about Gil visiting 1920s Paris. He meets a woman named Adriana (Marion Cotillard) and begins to question his life choices with Inez as a result. Gil and Adriana walk from Moulin Rouge, to the Seine River and back again. At night. With her in heels. Take it from me, that is A LOT of walking. If you try to retrace their steps, wear very good walking shoes.

1036_front_Paris je taimeParis, je t’aime (Paris, I Love You) (2006)

This film is actually a collection of 20, 5-minute films, one for each Paris arrondissement (similar to a county in the U.S.), each by a different director. Some of the stories are more fantasy-based than others. What I took away from this film is that while we have our cultural differences, human nature is the same everywhere. It is a beautiful film on love and the human condition, and I highly recommend it.

Ludivine Sagnier, an actress in the “Parc Monceau” segment (8th arrondissement) made an interesting comment in the interview Extras section: She said that the French don’t renew their city and that they need others to come to Paris and do it. They need fresh eyes to help them see what they don’t. I hope when you go to Paris you will remind Parisians how beautiful their city is, how much you enjoy their food and their company, and what a joy it is to be in a place where enjoying life is paramount.

57939_large_French Kiss_Blu_RayFrench Kiss (1995)

Kate (Meg Ryan) is engaged to Charlie (Timothy Bottoms). Kate has a fear of flying and so decides not to go to Paris on a business trip with her fiancé. Charlie meets a French woman (Juliette) almost immediately and proposes marriage. Kate decides to fly to Paris to retrieve her fiancé, but not before meeting a French thief named Luc (Kevin Kline) on the plane. He tells her he will help her win back Charlie while slipping in a stolen necklace in her handbag that he hopes to retrieve. The two have adventures in which they grow as people and as a couple.

Paris serves as a mere background for this film, meaning that the story could have been told in just about any foreign country with monuments. I got the feeling that shots with Paris monuments were mere “establish” shots, such as when Kate is in a phone booth on the Champs-Elysees and the camera captures the Arc de Triomphe in the near-background. Also, when Kate and Luc travel by train they just happen to pass the Eiffel Tower. Worse, these establish shots are fake: I was in Paris around the time French Kiss was filmed, and I never saw a glass phone booth in this location. Also, a train does not travel in front or in back of the Eiffel Tower as depicted. While directors frequently take creative license in such scenes in movies, Paris is one of the world’s most visited cities, so the city’s layout and cultural monoliths are well-known the world over. Although fictional, French Kiss wants to be believed, but the fictional portrayal of storied landmarks gives it an air of unreality.

As I previously stated, films can make an impact on the human mind, and, in turn, influence behavior. One example in French Kiss is the phrase Kate uses that makes the hair on the back of my neck stand up: before she calls Charlie’s new fiancée a “bitch” she says, “Pardon my French.” How many Americans are guilty of saying “pardon my French” before or after speaking a dirty word, as though every dirty word is of French origin? The French don’t have a monopoly on dirty words; every culture has them. Yet, generations of Americans have repeated this slur – and why wouldn’t we, since it is often used in movies and television shows to “emphasize the meaning of a less offensive word without violating censorship or rating guidelines” (Wikipedia). And according to the Urban Dictionary, the phrase “…originates from the constant warfare between England and France many years ago (that is, in the 1300s), at [the] time [when] ‘French’ was associated with indecent things and activities (swearing, kissing, etc.).”

Unbelievably, the first Americans left England for the New World long after this warfare ended, and England and France have long had diplomatic relations (!). Since the U.S. is not a part of England and England is no longer at war with France, anyway, how about serving as an example for others and not using this oft-repeated phrase? If you are reading this blog, chances are high that you care something about international relations. Please do your part, small though it may be, and stop blaming the French for every curse word. While we certainly have diplomatic relations with France, the U.S. sometimes seems to be in a culture war with them: we blame the French for being rude while many of us don’t even try to learn basic French phrases before travelling there, we demand them to cater us when we are visitors in their country, and the U.S. treats France as though they are a step-child in world affairs. France has been a major player in world and European affairs: it is a founding member of the U.N. and the E.U., and is a member of many other international organizations, such as NATO and the World Trade Organization. Small countries like France play an integral part in the global community whether the U.S. wants to acknowledge it or not.

As for Kate in French Kiss telling Juliette “pardon my French” before referring to her as a “bitch,” Kate was quite mistaken. The use of “bitch” to describe an objectionable woman has been in use since the 13th century, and according to Wikipedia, likely has its origins in the Old English term bicche, meaning “female dog.”

Salut.

 

 

Film posters and clips used by permission of Blu-ray.com. Wikipedia reference to page “Bitch (insult).” Urban Dictionary reference to page “Pardon my French.”

Je Suis Charlie

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I realize the horrific time has passed but I would be remiss if I did not mention my sorrow surrounding the shootings that took place in Paris this past January after Charlie Hebdo, a satirical magazine there, published some cartoons that some people found offensive.

My heart goes out to the families of those killed and to the French people in general. France is a peace-loving country that values, above all, human connections. I can only imagine the shock and horror that ripped through Paris and throughout France on the days the shootings took place. As the whole of France grieves, I grieve with them. I am a Francophile: I am part French, have studied French, and I have visited Paris three times, the last time for 30 days at the end of 2014. Many people have asked me (in an “I’m sure I know the answer” manner) if I was glad I returned to the United States prior to the shootings: in a word, no. On the contrary, I told them, I wish I had been able to stay in Paris – not just to work, which is my goal – but to have walked to the Republique in solidarity with the French people whom I care so much about, and to simply offer my support to those grieving. I admire the world leaders that offered their support in word and deed to the French people immediately following the attacks. They are true ambassadors for their respective countries.

I remember all too well where I was when the terrorist attacks happened on September 11, 2001, and how alone I felt. I was home from work having worked the late shift as a financial proofreader, and I hardly breathed as I watched the events unfold on television right before my eyes. My mind did not drift toward terrorist attacks: I thought the world had gone mad. Terror can tear the body to pieces, but what it does to a person’s heart and soul is far worse: it can kill the spirit, and the joy of living with it. That is why it is so important not to become isolated when terror strikes, because terror cannot do its dirty work if people stick together and support each other.

I know the French people are already rebounding from this. I only wish I could be there to offer my support in person.

Je Suis Charlie

Salut.

 

 

 

Je Suis Charlie image “Never Again” by Robert Couse-Baker, Copyright 2015. Used by Permission of Flickr. No changes made. Link to image pageCCBY 2.0